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		<title>Why is Silence in the Workplace No Longer Golden?</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/05/03/why-is-silence-in-the-workplace-no-longer-golden/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 May 2012 16:10:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I amazed by the noise levels that are acceptable in the modern workplace.  I&#8217;m a self-employed wonk-for-hire &#8212; so I spend a lot of time working quietly by myself on my own terms &#8212; but sometimes I have to go &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/05/03/why-is-silence-in-the-workplace-no-longer-golden/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=871&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Subliminal Sexual Discrimination via Voices on a Train</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/04/23/subliminal-sexual-discrimination-via-voices-on-a-train/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 15:56:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://relationshaping.com/?p=840</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I read something interesting online a while ago, but I can&#8217;t remember the source material.  The gist of the story was that the pre-recorded automated announcements you hear in train stations &#8211; and other public transit hubs and modes &#8212; are &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/04/23/subliminal-sexual-discrimination-via-voices-on-a-train/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=840&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Importance of the Bully Documentary</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/04/12/the-importance-of-the-bully-documentary/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Apr 2012 15:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the duration of my public high school experience (prior to attending The Peddie School for the second part of tenth grade through my senior year) I was reassured by my brother that I didn&#8217;t have to worry about people &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/04/12/the-importance-of-the-bully-documentary/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=827&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Food for Bombs in North Korea</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/03/22/food-for-bombs-in-north-korea/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2012 15:55:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://relationshaping.com/?p=816</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[When I was in school, I read about a popular program that involved trading guns for various things that were considerably more helpful to society and less dangerous to it as well. There were trades of guns for food and &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/03/22/food-for-bombs-in-north-korea/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=816&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Unbearable Lightening of Beyonce</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/03/08/the-unbearable-lightening-of-beyonce/</link>
		<comments>http://relationshaping.com/2012/03/08/the-unbearable-lightening-of-beyonce/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Mar 2012 16:28:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[RelationShaping]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[beyonce]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://relationshaping.com/?p=812</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Poor Beyonce.  She&#8217;s been put through a lot lately &#8212; and it&#8217;s all be done by her own wringing hands.  Her Fake Baby Pregnancy meme won&#8217;t die.  She&#8217;s been caught stealing from Bob Fosse.  Now, her &#8220;Blackness&#8221; is being called &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/03/08/the-unbearable-lightening-of-beyonce/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=812&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Crying Rape with Makeup Bruises</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/23/crying-rape-with-makeup-bruises/</link>
		<comments>http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/23/crying-rape-with-makeup-bruises/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2012 16:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Believing]]></category>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://relationshaping.com/?p=807</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Rape is a heinous, unspeakably morally evil crime for which there are no excuses &#8212; no matter what a person was wearing in the club when you met them or what you may have perceived as being signals. The moment &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/23/crying-rape-with-makeup-bruises/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=807&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The War Mask and the Black Ops Civilian</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/14/the-war-mask-and-the-black-ops-civilian/</link>
		<comments>http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/14/the-war-mask-and-the-black-ops-civilian/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 19:23:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On January 8, 2007, I wrote an article &#8212; Wearing Your Death Mask in Life &#8212; that concerned the masks we wear to protect us from who and what we&#8217;ve become: We all wear masks. Once you’ve lived long enough, &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/14/the-war-mask-and-the-black-ops-civilian/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=803&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Joe Paterno Becomes the Goat and Begins to Pay Down His Real Legacy</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/26/joe-paterno-becomes-the-goat-and-begins-to-pay-down-his-real-legacy/</link>
		<comments>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/26/joe-paterno-becomes-the-goat-and-begins-to-pay-down-his-real-legacy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 16:59:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://relationshaping.com/?p=798</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s an old saying in the theatre: &#8221;Don&#8217;t Be the Goat!&#8220; “Every production has a goat,” Dr. Stein would yell, “The goat gets the blame.  DON’T BE THE GOAT!” Dr. Stein’s advice is timeless and excellent.  He wanted to make sure &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/26/joe-paterno-becomes-the-goat-and-begins-to-pay-down-his-real-legacy/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=798&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Living in a Dark and Threatening Hollow: Evaluating the SOPA/PIPA Blackout</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/20/living-in-a-dark-and-threatening-hollow-evaluating-the-sopapipa-blackout/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 19:50:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Wednesday, January 18, 2012 we blacked out all 14 blogs in the Boles Blogs Network as part of a wide and grand protest against the SOPA/PIPA threat. We gladly joined that blackout because, on December 29, 2011 &#8212; in an &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/20/living-in-a-dark-and-threatening-hollow-evaluating-the-sopapipa-blackout/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=792&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Cruelty of the Duct Tape Parents</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/12/the-cruelty-of-the-duct-tape-parents/</link>
		<comments>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/12/the-cruelty-of-the-duct-tape-parents/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 15:57:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As you are well aware, I am not at all a fan of backseat parenting &#8212; I don&#8217;t see parents doing something with which I disagree and rush right over to tell them all about the error of their ways. &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/12/the-cruelty-of-the-duct-tape-parents/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&#038;blog=13477395&#038;post=786&#038;subd=reshaper&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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