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		<title>Crying Rape with Makeup Bruises</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2012 16:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rape is a heinous, unspeakably morally evil crime for which there are no excuses &#8212; no matter what a person was wearing in the club when you met them or what you may have perceived as being signals. The moment &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/23/crying-rape-with-makeup-bruises/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=807&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The War Mask and the Black Ops Civilian</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/14/the-war-mask-and-the-black-ops-civilian/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Feb 2012 19:23:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On January 8, 2007, I wrote an article &#8212; Wearing Your Death Mask in Life &#8212; that concerned the masks we wear to protect us from who and what we&#8217;ve become: We all wear masks. Once you’ve lived long enough, &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/02/14/the-war-mask-and-the-black-ops-civilian/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=803&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Joe Paterno Becomes the Goat and Begins to Pay Down His Real Legacy</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/26/joe-paterno-becomes-the-goat-and-begins-to-pay-down-his-real-legacy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 16:59:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s an old saying in the theatre: &#8221;Don&#8217;t Be the Goat!&#8220; “Every production has a goat,” Dr. Stein would yell, “The goat gets the blame.  DON’T BE THE GOAT!” Dr. Stein’s advice is timeless and excellent.  He wanted to make sure &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/26/joe-paterno-becomes-the-goat-and-begins-to-pay-down-his-real-legacy/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=798&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Living in a Dark and Threatening Hollow: Evaluating the SOPA/PIPA Blackout</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/20/living-in-a-dark-and-threatening-hollow-evaluating-the-sopapipa-blackout/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 19:50:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Wednesday, January 18, 2012 we blacked out all 14 blogs in the Boles Blogs Network as part of a wide and grand protest against the SOPA/PIPA threat. We gladly joined that blackout because, on December 29, 2011 &#8212; in an &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/20/living-in-a-dark-and-threatening-hollow-evaluating-the-sopapipa-blackout/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=792&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Cruelty of the Duct Tape Parents</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/12/the-cruelty-of-the-duct-tape-parents/</link>
		<comments>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/12/the-cruelty-of-the-duct-tape-parents/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 15:57:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[abuse]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[As you are well aware, I am not at all a fan of backseat parenting &#8212; I don&#8217;t see parents doing something with which I disagree and rush right over to tell them all about the error of their ways. &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/12/the-cruelty-of-the-duct-tape-parents/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=786&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The New Yorker for iPad Review</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/05/the-new-yorker-for-ipad-review/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 20:26:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I finally bit the bone and bought a year subscription to The New Yorker on my iPad 2.  I resisted the purchase for so long because the weekly magazine is pricey and because getting magazines to work on an iOS &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2012/01/05/the-new-yorker-for-ipad-review/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=782&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Preeclampsia, Fatherhood and Reflections on a First Birthday</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2011/12/15/preeclampsia-fatherhood-and-reflections-on-a-first-birthday/</link>
		<comments>http://relationshaping.com/2011/12/15/preeclampsia-fatherhood-and-reflections-on-a-first-birthday/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Dec 2011 17:07:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One year ago, I unexpectedly became a father earlier than I thought I would be &#8212; my wife was due toward the end of January and the weather was looking more and more brutal every day. A few days before &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2011/12/15/preeclampsia-fatherhood-and-reflections-on-a-first-birthday/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=775&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What is Really Attacking the Sanctity of Marriage?</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2011/11/24/what-is-really-attacking-the-sanctity-of-marriage/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 17:01:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a list of things that I believe are the actual attacks on the sanctity on marriage. There are many of them however I will only list a few. I would like to qualify this by stating that I &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2011/11/24/what-is-really-attacking-the-sanctity-of-marriage/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=765&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Someone Stole My Credit Card!</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2011/11/08/someone-stole-my-credit-card/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 22:19:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David W. Boles</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was sitting here writing my article on Google+ Pages when an email arrived arrived from my credit card company telling me I had just charged $79.98 at TJMaxx. &#8220;Huh?&#8221; I said to myself, &#8220;I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve even been &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2011/11/08/someone-stole-my-credit-card/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=757&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Forcing Offline Conversation with the Social Bomb</title>
		<link>http://relationshaping.com/2011/10/06/forcing-offline-conversation-with-the-social-bomb/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 15:19:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gordon Davidescu</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are bombs of different natures, mostly destructive. There are few bombs that exist that could possibly have any benefit for those affected by it. In a world where people sometimes share a space but don&#8217;t speak to one another, &#8230; <a href="http://relationshaping.com/2011/10/06/forcing-offline-conversation-with-the-social-bomb/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=relationshaping.com&amp;blog=13477395&amp;post=750&amp;subd=reshaper&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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