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            <title>Sniffing Out Sweetheart Site Hosting Deals</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Today, I want to warn you about Sweetheart Website hosting deals that you may not know about, or fully understand.&nbsp; Those backroom deals may unwittingly influence your buying decisions.<br /><br /> 

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            <title>Violent Imagination Shaping Brain Reality</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Does perceiving violent acts -- real or imagined -- change the shape of your brain and how it processes information?&nbsp; The blunt -- and likely unpopular -- answer is, "Yes."&nbsp; <br /><br /> 

<div align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/brain.jpg" /></div> ]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 08:23:31 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Memeingful Online Learning</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Taking the classroom online not only re-forms relationships and ways of knowing -- distance learning also creates memeingful teacher and student dyads that can be stronger apart than when collected in the same physical classroom.<br /><br /> 

    <p align="center"><a href="http://hardcoreasl.com/tutoring.html"><img src="http://hardcoreasl.com/ichat.png" alt="Picture Yourself Learning American Sign Language, Level 1" border="0" height="163" width="163" /></a><a href="http://hardcoreasl.com/consulting.html"><img src="http://hardcoreasl.com/skype.png" alt="Hand Jive Book Cover!" border="0" height="163" width="165" /></a></p>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 08:10:22 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>The Peril of a Mechanical Pencil</title>
            <description><![CDATA[The modern world made a sea change when <a href="http://urbansemiotic.com/2006/08/10/smelling-of-pencils/">the wood pencil</a>  was replaced by a mechanical one -- and what was lost in that industrial design exchange was our tether to the land, a sense of impermanence, and a shared yearning for renewable resources. <br /><br /> <div align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/mechanical.jpg" /></div> ]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 08:10:31 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>The Danger of Trading Essence for Experience</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Today we live in danger of surviving only in essences and not experiences.<br /><br />

<div align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/ess.jpg" /></div> ]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 07:48:54 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Separating Semaphores from Semiotics</title>
            <description><![CDATA[We love a <a href="http://urbansemiotic.com/">Semiotic world</a> where images can have a variety of meanings and influences depending on the eye perceiving the message. &nbsp;<div><br /></div><div>We also live in a Semaphoric world where specific images have a specific, non-negotiable, meaning that cannot, and must not, be open to individual interpretation. &nbsp;In the image below, those flags, in that exact position, mean "Romeo" or "R" and if you don't understand that Semaphore, you are unable to communicate or be understood.</div><div>&nbsp;<br /><p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/semaphore.jpg" /></p>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 10:17:14 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Trapped by Proprietary Technology</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Beware of the curse of proprietary technology!<br /><div><br />

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            <pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 10:31:34 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Death of the Old God</title>
            <description><![CDATA[The great American Playwright Eugene O'Neill said, in the early 1900's: <br /><br /><blockquote><b>"The greatest challenge to mankind over the next century will be the failure of science and technology to replace the death of the old God."</b><br /></blockquote>

<p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/goddeath1.jpg" /></p> 
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            <pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 07:56:55 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Pinching the God Particle for Profit</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Science has <a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/science/article3701645.ece">pinched God</a>! <br /><br /> 

<p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/godpart.jpg" /></p> ]]></description>
            <link>http://relationshaping.com/2008/04/pinching-the-god-particle-for-profit.html</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 08:30:26 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Saving Private Soldier Sperm</title>
            <description><![CDATA[War not only ravages the body.&nbsp; War savages the family.&nbsp; War kills the future.&nbsp; War assassinates the now.&nbsp; A soldier's widow was forced by the United States Military to not only fight for her right to her dead husband's sperm, but she was also pressed to dig into the muck and mire of a rigid military system that was unkind to the living remnants of a fallen body.&nbsp; Kynesha Dhanoolal won the battle, but lost her war. <br /><br /> 

<p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/ssperm.jpg" /></p> ]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 10:44:11 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>The Suicide Heart and Craving Chicken</title>
            <description><![CDATA[Are we only our DNA?&nbsp; Or is there more to us than just blood and guts?&nbsp; Can the essence of us live beyond our lives and into the horizon of others?<br /><br />Two recent stories about The Suicide Heart and a Craving for Fried Chicken lead us into the realm of <a href="http://urbansemiotic.com/2007/11/12/the-uncanny-and-homesick-sexual-longing/">the uncanny</a>.&nbsp; <br /><br /> 

<p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/sui.jpg" /></p>]]></description>
            <link>http://relationshaping.com/2008/04/the-suicide-heart-and-craving-chicken.html</link>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2008 07:26:39 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Mouspad Droppings and the Wood Scar</title>
            <description><![CDATA[I have a beautiful, old, writing desk I use all day every day.&nbsp; <br /><br />Notice I said "writing desk" and not "computer desk" because there's a big, scarring, difference between the two that you shall soon learn.<br /><br /> 

<p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/adesk.jpg" /></p> ]]></description>
            <link>http://relationshaping.com/2008/04/mouspad-droppings-and-the-wood-scar.html</link>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 12:37:39 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Proof of Life: Dying to Blog</title>
            <description><![CDATA[<p>You and I know blogging is a job -- and a <a href="http://urbansemiotic.com/2008/04/09/rigging-the-ruthless-gene/">genetic obsession</a> -- and now, thanks to The New York Times, everyone else knows blogging is killing us all.<br /><br /> </p>

<p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/blogdeath.jpg" /></p> 
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            <link>http://relationshaping.com/2008/04/proof-of-life-dying-to-blog.html</link>
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            <pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 09:40:09 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>Disposable People</title>
            <description><![CDATA[We are all disposable.&nbsp; The longer we live, the closer we move to the trash bin.<br /><br />As we age, and become less than we were, technology strives to keep us alive, to help the heart keep pumping and to keep the skeletal architecture of us strong and the impulse of our muscle twitching. <br /><br /> 

<p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/disposable.jpg" /></p> ]]></description>
            <link>http://relationshaping.com/2008/04/disposable-people.html</link>
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            <pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 09:00:48 -0500</pubDate>
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            <title>The Blogging Pain of Moving Parts</title>
            <description><![CDATA[There is nothing worse in the world than <a href="http://urbansemiotic.com/2008/04/urban-semiotic-moved-from-wordpress-to-movable-type/">moving a blog from one publishing platform</a> to another.<br /><br />I am presently oozing pain and suffering rivulets of blood loss today as my <a href="http://urbansemiotic.com/">Urban Semiotic</a> blog suffers against a threatening weekend of technical support inaction and un-styled blog content and borked URLs.<br /><br />

<p align="center"><img src="http://boles.com/called/08/blogpain.jpg" /></p> ]]></description>
            <link>http://relationshaping.com/2008/04/the-blogging-pain-of-moving-parts.html</link>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 04 Apr 2008 18:20:03 -0500</pubDate>
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